Poking You In Your Eye.

CarMichael Angelo

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I just poked a whole bunch of eyes over at FEP, I'll probably do it again here.

I started a thread over there questioning as to why some people continually offer one line fluff replies to anything and everything that gets posted.
I.E. "Looks good, Awesome, Keep up the good work."

Why?

Now because the original message became lost in translation over there, I'll be sure to set it apart here so that I can refer back to it after it gets mutated a few replies from now.
  • I'm not saying people should slam somebody for posting pics of inferior work, I'm saying you shouldn't hand out a fluff comment like "Awesome or looks good, or keep up the good work." Conversely, say nothing instead.

3 days, over 1000 views, 58 replies. That's how quickly the ants poured out of the mound, once I made that statement. Half of them were so incensed, that the original statement became twisted to convey that we should hate on poor quality work.

This is how I see it. One guy said that there was 100 ways to do something, and who was I to judge what was good, and what was bad work.

You can say what you want, but there is really only one way to do something right, and a few ways to do it "almost as good", and a whole bunch of ways to do it wrong.

Take an engine compartment refresh/ engine rebuild as an example:

Most of the time this is done w/ the engine out, so we'll start there.

The right way starts w/ a gutted engine bay. No wires, no grommets, no hoses, no brackets. Depending on the condition of the existing paint, we'll say that only the area where the battery was needs a little intense sanding, the rest of the bay needs cleaning w/ a degreaser, and scuffed w/ a scotchbrite pad.

The compartment is primed, then painted body color w/ a gun.

Since most don't have access to or the skills to spray the engine compartment w a spray gun, and compressor, and a lot won't want to blow the AC charge, open the brake system, and have to do a complete rewire, the "almost as good" involves taping up all of the "danglers" the firewall grommets, and using a rattle can that was either close to the original color, or going black. In the end, it'll look almost as good as the first example.
The engine is fresh back from the machine shop so everything is cleaned, and all of it is painted.

Exibit A. 100 % rattle can.
mustangbuild358.jpg

This can be anybodies engine compartment, I only use this because I know for a fact that it was spray bombed.

From there, the standards drop,

B. Cleaning, but no sanding. Some bracket removal and a hasty masking, engine is the main focus, it gets all of the detail love.

C. No prep before, no cleaning, no masking. A quicky detail on the engine w/ skanky accessories bolted back on
D. A new shiny painted engine w/ skanky accessories gets shoved back into a 150k engine compartment

Now again, I'm not gonna dog the pic of exibit C, or D, but I'm not gonna tell the guy that it looks awesome either. Yet there are those that rush out there in support of their fellow enthusiast that are just gushing out the positive reinforcement, and there is the rub.

Is it so important that everybody get a trophy?

If you want to tell the guy that that looks awesome where is the reference standard when you also tell somebody like a raceoholic that his engine compartment looks awesome too? I'm not saying that nobody should post a pic of their progress if the work is like C, or D, I'm wondering why somebody else needs to blow smoke up his ass when he does it.

More or less I got killed over at FEP, matter of fact, I said it seemed a little Stepford. Had it been a mob mentality, I'd be swinging from some tree.

Here there is a like button, and that is a tough one to call. I believe that you can like something about anything, so I'm conflicted about handing out likes as compared to handing out a written one liner pat on the head.

We'll see how this goes here.
 
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The rattle can car looks pretty good in the picture. I don't know what it looked like in person.

The only easily visible flaw is that the fuel pressure gauge line seems to have no loop or slack in it. When the engine rocks, it will eventually damage the line enough to leak or break.
 
The way I see it, you go to the tech section for facts and come here for opinions.

I'm not going to like everything you do, and visa versa.

If you don't like my opinions, use the ignore function like I do to hide all the people who drive me nuts.

It's a nice place now!
 
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I understand that we all share a common interest in cars. This does not mean that we all share the same end result in cars. Some guy just want to go fast where as some guys just want to look good. It comes with the territory. Almost like saying everyone with a 500k dollar house is immaculate inside. The outside may look good, but the inside is torn to chit. Does it make it anymore less that a 500k house when you drive by it? In that I say I respect everyone who at least tries in this game of car wars. We could all be driving Prius' where there are nobody "modding" them out.02
 
The only time when I get frustrated with people is when they explicitly ask for an opinion and then get majorly butthurt when people offer criticism. They freak out when people don't like their sweet new blinging LED tail lights on a 25 year old car. If you're asking for an opinion on the Internet, you better be ready for some honesty.

Then there are those that just want to show off their hard work. For me, when I see something that I'm impressed by, I'll comment. Otherwise I just move along. Usually people figure out when nobody is impressed with their work when their thread is comment-less. I remember years ago when I thought it was cool to have tailpipes sticking through the back of a GT bumper. I posted a picture of my car with that sweet mod and got crickets. I may have even received a few barf emojis. Message received.

It's the same deal at car shows. People put their cars in the show to put their hard work on display. It's common courtesy to just walk by if you don't fancy the car in front of you. Nobody with any tact would openly tell someone how terrible their car looks. I was at a cars and coffee today. The cars in the show ranged from Ferrari 458's to 'stanced' early 90s VW's. There were some people with such hoopties that I wanted to ask them if they parked in the show lot by mistake. I'm a nice guy though, so I just walked passed them to the line of Lambos.
 
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The only time when I get frustrated with people is when they explicitly ask for an opinion and then get majorly butthurt when people offer criticism. They freak out when people don't like their sweet new blinging LED tail lights on a 25 year old car. If you're asking for an opinion on the Internet, you better be ready for some honesty.

Then there are those that just want to show off their hard work. For me, when I see something that I'm impressed by, I'll comment. Otherwise I just move along. Usually people figure out when nobody is impressed with their work when their thread is comment-less. I remember years ago when I thought it was cool to have tailpipes sticking through the back of a GT bumper. I posted a picture of my car with that sweet mod and got crickets. I may have even received a few barf emojis. Message received.

It's the same deal at car shows. People put their cars in the show to put their hard work on display. It's common courtesy to just walk by if you don't fancy the car in front of you. Nobody with any tact would openly tell someone how terrible their car looks. I was at a cars and coffee today. The cars in the show ranged from Ferrari 458's to 'stanced' early 90s VW's. There were some people with such hoopties that I wanted to ask them if they parked in the show lot by mistake. I'm a nice guy though, so I just walked passed them to the line of Lambos.

Your car sucks. You should give it to me so that you don't have to suffer the embarrassment of driving it on local roads.
 
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This is a public forum, and there are lots of opinions.

Opinions are like noses, everybody has one. I have never met someone with two noses, but I have met people with two opinions...

When you post a problem, make a statement or ask a question, you open the door and ask other people to poke their noses in your business. Some of the responses will be agreeable and other will not: that's just life... It's how you handle it that makes all the difference...
 
You forgot to mention "do a search" in the commonly replied answers portion of your tantrum. Now for the rest guys and gals its simple, its all relative. What's a job well done for one is crap for another. When you're kiddo is learning to write do you tell em "good job" or "that c looks like crap?"
But what's really going on is a narcissistic fella saying look at me look at me my work is far superior than thou arts.
 
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You forgot to mention "do a search" in the commonly replied answers portion of your tantrum. Now for the rest guys and gals its simple, its all relative. What's a job well done for one is crap for another. When you're kiddo is learning to write do you tell em "good job" or "that c looks like crap?"
But what's really going on is a narcissistic fella saying look at me look at me my work is far superior than thou arts.

Hmmm,....refer to the bold outlined sentence on the very first post.