There is the best answer you will find about being married.
I have been married and divorced four times since 1972. I have two great kids, by the first one and five wonderful grand kids. You cannot make someone love you, dont try. Dont stay married for the kids. And always choose the stang over the wife. Ask my last one. I told her not to make it a choice. The wonderful woman I am dating now is new to the car thing. I told her the other day about spending 20k for a motor for the car. She gave me one of those (what are you crazy) looks.....
So time will tell if she will be number five.......
***And on a side note. You dont have to hate each other because you dont love each other anymore. I still get along great with all my ex's.****