I've run tokico's before. I thought they rode great. I'm half your age though. Have you looked into Bilstien at all. I have those on my Saleen right now and am very happy with them.
I just saw i set of those wheels on craigslist for $275. they were in Lansing, or Detroit Michigan, i don't recall which. Hope that helps you get them replaced. Sorry that happend to you.