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midlife89

midlife89

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#1
Hey everyone been a while since i,ve be here.My divorce is finally over,sure hope my luck changes(someone hit my stang in a lot,got that fixed,coon got trapped in my garage knocked a garden hoe down hit my freshly painted car).I'll be putting it back in my name soon.Put in my dad's name so she couldn't take it.Didn't drive it lmuch last summer.Couldn't afford to.Had to pay her 1,100 a month temp support,plus 200.00 car pay,70.00 car insurance,plus her benifits,240.00 a month.Been working 7 days to try n keep my house.
Now that it's over just pay 1100.00 a month,too bad it's for the next 4 yrs.lolThats the deal my lawyer cut,don't knowwho was worse her lawyer or mine.Quit smoking might quit drinking ,nah,need at least one vice.Gonna live as cheap as possible already starting to bank some $,thinking blower in th near future,Already done H/C/I just gotta save 2000.00 more.Definately staying away from women for awhile,unless they have a job,lol.
 
#2
well dude, im very sorry to hear what your going through, but it sound like your finally hitting the end of the tunnel. just hang in there and "keep on keepin on" lol. good luck with everything man.
 
#3
Sorry to hear about your misfortunes, smart move putting your car in your dads name. If you dont mind me asking why do you have to pay her 1100 a month in support? you have kids with her? stuff like this jus confirms me not wanting to get married. the guy gets screwed everytime. I hope it works out for you dude and for now just do things that make you happy and nobody else. When you start going to the bars again jus use women for sex and nothing else, wrap it up and be careful. bang em, and send em packing.
 
#5
310stanger said:
Sorry to hear about your misfortunes, smart move putting your car in your dads name. If you dont mind me asking why do you have to pay her 1100 a month in support? you have kids with her? stuff like this jus confirms me not wanting to get married. the guy gets screwed everytime. I hope it works out for you dude and for now just do things that make you happy and nobody else. When you start going to the bars again jus use women for sex and nothing else, wrap it up and be careful. bang em, and send em packing.
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NO, he doesn't. :nonono:

Why just use women for sex? There are women out there who don't deserve to be treated like that. :nonono:

That was a ****ed up thing to say...
 
#7
I agree with carbed87, I know a bunch of guys that have been divorced before (coworkers from different shops I've worked at), I've heard so many stories like "I gotta pay this that and the other thing because of that bitch!" or "I had a boat, a classic car and a condo and she took all of it" and not because they cheated on their wives, just because they couldnt stand her. I think carbed87 meant to say, in a divorce the men get usually tend to get screwed over FINANCIALLY, women want to take everything. (Some women just don't have their heads torqued to spec correctly.) Thats just my opinion. As for midlife89 - Good luck with everything, good thing your were able to keep your real girl. haha
 
#13
310stanger said:
If you dont mind me asking why do you have to pay her 1100 a month in support?
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Ever heard of alimony? The purpose is to allow a seperated spouse to maintain the lifestyle they were accustomed to living while being married. The general rule is the spouse with the higher income must pay alimony to the spouse with the lesser income for some period of time ... until remarriage, period of years, etc. (of course there are exceptions for everything). Often times the spouse paying the alimony is forced to live a lifestyle well below that which they were accustomed to living during the time of marriage.

Then, on top of alimony there is child support. In this case, if she has the legal and custodian rights to the children then he would also have to pay child support on top of the alimony payments. Things can add up very quickly. Good luck.
 
#15
MAC'n89Blckstng said:
What's your definition of the "real world" I'm pretty sure I deal with the same "world" as you do, sounds like someones a little cranky about this subject................................
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I'm not getting into a debate over this with anyone. All I know is I was cheated on by both my husbands and the first one only pays $300 a month for 3 kids because I was NICE and didn't want HIM to go broke. Now, I'M broke. My second husband had a kid while we were married. NOT WITH ME. I tried to stick it out and forgive him and help him since he paid $400 a month for ONE kid. Now, he's unemployed living with Mommy while I'm working my ass off. I'm still saving to get a devorce. That is why I'm "a little cranky" on the subject. :(
 
#16
Sucks to hear..Keep your head up, things will get better.

My situation is different than most...I got full custody, the house and my sanity....I think..

I fought for what was best for my son, and it cost some major $$. 7 years later, things arelooking 10x better than they were. Never give up!!
 
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