You can compare all you want, but the only sure way is looking at the actual gear itself for markings or counting the teeth, or comparing tire rotation to drive shaft as outlined above(which I should have tried sooner...). If your analysis is done strictly on comparing speeds you are likely to have other factors throw off your conclusion - like how accurate are the cars you are comparing it to, do you have an aftermarket transmission that can manipulate the rear end gear (make it higher or lower), things like this can change the way the car drives at certain speeds...Personally, I was totally unaware of my ACTUAL gear ratio until I took it apart and looked for myself!
Also what are you looking to accomplish? If you already have a 3:55 or 3:73 gear hypothetically but you are inquiring because you want your car to be "faster" than it already is, you probably need to go straight for at least a 4:10 regardless of what kind of gear you have. Now if you have a 3:27 in there then a 3:73 might be a better step up. I just know cobra engines like 4:10 and up and my old GT had a 3:73, which seemed like a decent match for the 2valve engine.