The best was is to take a mechanical gauge and tape it to your windshield and go for a ride. You can also datalog your WOT fuel pressure. Sometimes the datalogs monitor the fuel pressure in KPA. Just mulitiply the KPA by 0.145 to get PSI.
My fuel presure at WOT without the N20 was right around 49-50 PSI. So at first I used the calculator and using 50 PSI, 1000 PSI bottle pressure, and a 57 N20 jet, the calculator suggested a 32 fuel jet. I tried a 32 fuel jet and it worked OK, but I noticed for some odd reason bank 1 was going a tad richer than bank 2. I tried a 31 fuel jet and made 17 RWHP more and I could feel the difference in the hit, and it balanced out the a/f on both sides.
The calculator should get your real close, but it wouldn't hurt to experiment a little with the fuel jets.
What size N20 jet do you plan on using? What brand kit will you be using?