For your needs:
Key switched power goes to pin 85
Temp switch goes to pin 86
fused + 12V directly from battery goes to pin 30
fan motor (+12V) goes to pin 87
With this wiring, the fan will only come on when the key is turned on AND the temperature switch is also on.
not to bash your skillz...but are you sure?
Here is a pdf of a negative trigger relay setup I found for an alarm...should work on the same principal. I was questioning myself so I googled it... It should be setup like the 2nd example.
http://www.koolglo.com/BOSCH1.pdf