Your backup light switch isn't connected or isn't working. This drawing is for a Tremec 3550, but the location of the backup light switch is the same on the T5.
found it thanks.found out that the harness in an aod eqipped car coming from the drivers side kick panel running to the trans tunnel only has two plugs.one for the nss the other is for the another switch im not sure for what exactly.anyway 5spd equipped cars have three plugs.the third plugs directly to the reverse switch on the side of trans.its a plug and play deal.unplugged aod harness inside drivers kick panel and got the 5spd harness from junkyard plugged it in and guess what.... reverse lights.coll huh.lol. thanks for the help. you guys are awsome.