Let's see, you're spending several thousand dollars on a new engine and you want to just cut the weight off that flexplate and go with it?
Not to sound liek a jerk, but....
Ummmm....... no, I wouldn't do that if I were you. At the least take it and have it done by a mahine shop where they can reballence it after the weight is removed to be sure it's zero balence. Or sell it and buy a zero balence flexplate.
You said it's "super expensive", but a new flexplate is like $225 and your block alone was about $2500. Plus machining, the cranks, rods, pistons, etc....
Does it make sense to skimp on a $250 part when your spending several thousand? Not to mention it's a pretty importent part. Vibration will kill an engine and seriously hinder performance.