Grow smaller hips? Heh heh... they wish. No, dude, any woman who looks like one won't be comfortable. Flip through a few years of Playboy and tell me how many playmates have smaller than 32" hips- not too many. On that note, I don't have the inflatable lumbar, but I think it would help with the female passenger problem so I will probably try it out for that reason- the trouble is they can't push all the way back into the seat and that would hold them out a bit... maybe. IDK. I got one of mine on ebay, and the other from Latemodel Restoration Supply. They were running a promotional from Corbeau with free shipping, and they sell them for $798 a pair. I would call them first and ask about free shipping. I have never seen them for $800 shipped, and I did a lot of shipping around before I bought- but they may have gone down since then. They are holding up fine, aside from being a PIA to keep clean. I'm pretty carefull with them. The leather would hold up better, and be easier to clean I think- but I'm in the trades so my car is hard to keep clean in general. It's just this fabric sucks- it's warm and comfy and looks sweet, but everything sticks to it and won't vacuum off. A pencil pusher probably wouldn't have any problems. Oh- I highly recommend the full seat brackets with these seats! They're thick, and if you only get the adaptors it will raise them up even higher, you'll get stuck between the seat and the wheel.