i hear you - dont feel bad. i have not wired up a controller (and figured others would answer). i am decent with generic wiring, but not having done one of these.....
here is the deal. juice to the compressor is cut off when you mash the gas. so it would be nice to hit the a/c wiring before the WOT relay. here is one of Tom's great pics:
http://www.veryuseful.com/mustang/tech/engine/images/fuel-alt-links-ign-ac.gif
the WOT relay is left of the puter.
you might be stuck running the a/c wiring from the compressor anyhow - the wire you would need to tap into is the positive coil wire (the top two wires in the relay are the coil wires. one is positive and one negative - they have the curly cues between them). but i WOULD BE AFRAID OF OVERLOADING THE CIRCUIT. i would not tap into the appropriate coil wire without having Jrichker, Tom (TMoss), Michael Yount, Hllon or one of the other wiring gurus chime in. i dont want you to fry anything.
it depends upon how much current the puter can handle, and how much draw the controller uses from that wire tap, to energize the controller/relay/fan.
does that make sense? im not sure it does to me, LOL.
so i will bump this for one of the wisemen to speak up, and help you out. like i said, i dont feel comfortable having you act on my two cents worth, without confirmation from one of the smart peeps in here.......
good luck and sorry to not be more help.