Help needed - Cranks, no Start

Out of the blue in September, went out to drive and the car would just crank, no fuel pump noise. Ordered a new fuel pump replaced still just cranks no pump. Replaced relay

Searched Google found the no start check list went through it determined it might be the computer. Checked the computer found a bad capacitor went ahead and replaced all three. To no avail just cranks

Now when I replaced the relays I found that if I flick or tap the relay the fuel pump will kick on. No injector pulse or start (does fire with starting fluid)

My questions are
Could I be missing a signal wire to the computer?

I'm aware I'm new to the forum but Is there anyone near Ocala FL with a 87-93 5 speed computer I could use to test?
 
Are you sure the wires in the fuel pump relay are all making good contact? Just asking due to you stating “Now when I replaced the relays I found that if I flick or tap the relay the fuel pump will kick on”.