now you can return that ring which my guess was around 500 bucks maybe more. and get something for yourself.95WhiteVenom said:This actually is my worst Valentines ever. My girlfriend of over two years who I was gonna ask to marry me on Valentines (I already got the ring). Dumped me two weeks ago cause she has to much going on with school and work. It was only three weeks ago she was ready to get married and start planning a family. Talk about a horrible Valentines mine has never sucked any worse than it does now.
Yeah man, chicks do dig that kinda stuff. I usually try to do something semi-creative each year.GreenStangGT said:I've found that Valentine's day can actually be very cheap, you just have to plan things out. While jewelry, flowers, typical and traditional presents are fine, they are expensive and you can do without them. I just always do something creative and gushy (yes it's hyper-emotional and girly, but she always loves it and she knows how to repay me...). Spending money is not essential, this year I got by with $22 and she cried she was so happy. All I will say is that it involved a nice card, a handwritten note, some streamers, and A LOT of post-it notes.
fiveo'cobra said:I don't understand most girls' huge obsession with this stupid materialistic commercialized holiday. I recently went to USC to visit my gf, went to dinner, saw her play in concert, etc. She's a huge music fan so i got her this badass Bob Marley poster i found cuz she's a big fan. We had a great time. Today i find out that some of her friends ( and one of my REALLY good friends from home.....a dude) came in her room, and made her sit down and talk about what a bad bf and how lazy i am for not giving her flowers or giving her chocolate or some crap. I go to school 200 miles away from her. I'm sitting here thinking do they actually KNOW how much a dozen roses costs to be delivered on valentine's day on top of that? I'm in college; i don't have $120 to spend on god damn flowers. Like they really made a big deal out of this. And now she's mad. Just SO much friggin dramma over something some friggin dumb so i'm really considering breaking up with her now; despite that she's a great girl i just dont wanna deal with it.
Its CRAZY and just plain f u ckin pathetic that people will actually make it THEIR business to sit down and start a jerk circle on how bad i am because of this BS holiday. Next time i see that dude, i'm cracking him in the face. What a little bitch.
95WhiteVenom said:Thanks Paul, she has just had a rough time lately. First she got robbed at gunpoint as she was walking to her apartment, then she finds out her dad has lung cancer, now she has to look for a new apartment (her first time away from home she is in college and over 200 miles from home). As well as the big thing know as trying to get accepted into pharmacy school.
She just needs time to get her life back on track.
I agree I buy my girl stuff all the time for no real reason. Its like an I love you present. Shes always like aww thank you but why did you get it I just say cause I love you and wanted too and she loves it. Never did that with any of my exs it ws always you want something buy it your damn self lolnmcgrawj said:One other thing i've learned is that if u do stuff out of the blue...then Feb. 14 turns into "just another day". My girl loves the random stuff i do...because at that point its really heart felt. Where as, like we are all saying, doing stuff for holidays isnt a heart felt thing. Well no, we do put thought into it, but its because of the date. And not just cause something we wanted to do. I dunno if that makes sense. I guess my point is to take pressure off of V-day, surprise her with similar things on July 23 or Aug 18 or December 6 or April 17 or Jan 22. Im sure you'd get twice the reaction if u did what we do on v-day...on any other day "just because".
nmcgrawj said:One other thing i've learned is that if u do stuff out of the blue...then Feb. 14 turns into "just another day". My girl loves the random stuff i do...because at that point its really heart felt. Where as, like we are all saying, doing stuff for holidays isnt a heart felt thing. Well no, we do put thought into it, but its because of the date. And not just cause something we wanted to do. I dunno if that makes sense. I guess my point is to take pressure off of V-day, surprise her with similar things on July 23 or Aug 18 or December 6 or April 17 or Jan 22. Im sure you'd get twice the reaction if u did what we do on v-day...on any other day "just because".
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