I would say theres something not right....
I would be more worried about the bearing clearances, bearing type and material, and so forth....They make different kinds of bearings, some are made for higher rpms like your running. For ex. I believe the Clevite H series bearings is for that and P series is for stockish application or vice versa....but if the clearance isn't right it's going to eat bearings.
Theres Tons of people that bring these motors to 6k all the time and have over 100k on the odometer and aren't eating bearings..for example the stang I just bought, it got beat the piss out of it and the only damage is deformed valve stems (had to file down the lip cuz the valves wouldnt pull out of the head) from the valves floating....Did you measure the oil clearance between the bearings? clean out all the oil passages INSIDE the crank and Inside the block? all you need is a passageway from the pump to the first journal to get partially clogged and it will ruin it for all 8 rod bearings. and of course good oil and rod bolts cant hurt...