If you've got the ability to do it, why not simply start from scratch. Re-wire the whole set up so that the light switch/bright light switch simply acts as the energizing source for a new set of relays. Pulling your light switch on or flipping on the high beams will simply trigger relays which switch the lights on.
Use one relay to power the low beams, and a separate relay to power the high beams. If you're running high powered bulbs, size your relays accordingly. If you want redundancy, use 4 relays - one for each high and low beam filament; that way if you lose a relay, you don't loose both lights. Keep your power and ground wiring runs as short as possible, and use 12 or 10 gauge wire from battery/alternator to the power-in terminal of the relay, and from the power out relay terminal to the lights.
Wiring it up this way will take all the big current out of the switches, allowing them to last probably the life of the car, and it will allow 10-15% more voltage to get to the lights which allows them to put 10-15% more light on the road. And you can do it all for probably less than $20 in parts - pick up relays at AutoZone in their auxillary lighting/headlights department.