alright, as said it was a bad relearn, now Ill go into details about me knowing what Im talking about.
My buddys cars was a no start, and we thought it could have been the battery, so we took a known working battery(mine) and put it into his car. nothin, so put the battery back into my car and tried to jump it again, about 3 times, so it was relearning while under a huge load 3000rpms, and it was never like that before, and therefore, thats what needs to be done
now thank god Ive asked for the same thing on 4 forums, because stangnet is terrible, and everyone thinks theyre a cop and tries to interogate you!