Once again, backpressure is always bad. The fact is that larger exaust will cause more backpressure if the energy and volume of the air isn't sufficient to push the gas out of the car. I have a pnumatic (sp) (air powered) vaccume cleaner with no mechanical parts except a on/off valve. So how do you turn 90+psi into vaccume? Well it has six small ports that face towards the bag. When you squeeze the trigger the air is blown away from the nozel, causing a vaccume. Exaust works the same.
Why would stock headers work best in a stock motor for low end torque? Well even though they are kinked, these kinks act like venturie tubes in a carb to speed up the air, but not allow it to blow back in. Forming a chamber of vaccume behind the kinks so when the exaust opens up there is less volume of gas and actually sucks the exaust up and increases velosity.