Well i gave up!

that sucks, but live and learn. you will remember the correct order from now on i bet.

there is a different order for HO and non HO. hard lesson, but as cheap as you would ever get (if it had been something major and they did it, that would be ugly on the paycheck). so lesson learned. i know you tried, as i followed all of your threads.
dont sweat it.
as for shops, there are many (even private shops) that wont touch moded stuff. if i had a shop, i likely would not unless my tech guys were trained on working on such cars. they dont want to waste time chasing stuff cuz it doesnt work right together (im having flashbacks to that poor guy who gave his car to Larocca's awhile back. it was like a 10 page thread). just a business decision.
hope it runs well now.

Don't feel too bad, I had mine towed to the dealer a long while back cause it was running horribly….. ended up being two broken plug wires! They were only a couple of years old, so I didn't even think to check or change them. A $40 set of wires cost me about $160!