why does the bore have to be 4.060? If it were me, I would always try to keep as much meat as possible around the cylinders for strength sake. Whether its a 302 based or 351 base, Id keep it stock bore.
With a 4.060 bore, 4inch stroke, 9.2 deck height. Youll have approx 414 cubic inches with a 65 cc head.
With the 3.85 stroke, you'll have approx 399 cubic inches with the same head and 9.5-1 comp ratio.
I used this, it may help with your combo.-http://www.appletreeauto.com/engcalc.htm
Most 351 stroker guys are using thr 408 stroker kit. You can go as big as a 427 with a stock 351 ford production block, but that would be more raced focused. Id go with a 408 if it were me. It would HAVE to be forced induction, cuz once youve experienced it, you cant go back to N/A. Id go all out with some AFR 225s.....but thats just my look on things.Good luck