Percys dead soft aluminum gaskets from summitracing.com . My turbo car has a TON of back pressure...roughly 20PSI+ on the exhaust system before the turbo. And I only had one side blow out after 10K....and well thats my fault.
Front bolt was about a 1/4 inch from the flange teh first time and 0 leaks (hows that for a good seal), so I just tightened it down and that was that. Then a few months later, the same header bolt loosened up AGAIN (+ another one next to it was also hand tight) and it started leaking. So I just replaced the gasket with the same kind.....it took ALOT of abuse and held up great.
Had I checked the bolts (not actuall header bolts) and kept everything tight, it wouldnt have blown out.
So I HIGHLY recommend them....you will never blow them out if they stand up to all the back presure my car makes.