you guys are getting the 2 confused.
SYNCHROMAX - made by royal purple is a manual transmission fluid made for transmissions that call for ATF.
SYNCHROMESH - Is the General Motors product which some people have said tremec has told them will eat the coating on the synchros over time and is not recommended for the 3650. Some guys on here are still running this in their 3650 and say it works fine.
BTW you will never get a definitive answer on this subject, and as far as ford is concerned they consider this normal transmission operation. Enjoy your 1-2 grind!
Tell me this tho, once its warmed up, does it not shift PERFECT.. like once ive driven for 5 mins, it becomes the smoothest transmission ever, however when its cold, it does the 1-2 grinder.