does this sound like overheating?

have a k&N drop in filter which is fine, i cleaned the maf not to long ago (didnt mess anything up either, i was very careful) i have a new fuel filter. the only thing it could be is the IAC i guess but someone told me that wouldnt give me idle surge so i dont know. my car also starts pretty ****ty too, the first start of the day is fine then it slowly gets worse everytime i start it from then on, it wil lget to the point where it barley wants to start and will just crank without starting, then ill stop an try again an it will just barley start an the rpms will jump up then fall. then after that it will just start crappy again like before but it wont do the crank an not start thing. its strange, its not my battery also, i have a new optima red top.