ok i am thinking now it might be a clutch problem. when sitting at a stop, in neutral, it will make a tapping noise like if you push the clutch in just a little bity and try to put it in gear. well when u push the clutch in, the sound goes away.
ever since ive owned the car, whenever i got to put it in reverse, sometimes i would have to let the clutch out a little bit just to get that shifter to move that last half inch or so to engage reverse. well now its basically like it just wont go that extra little bit.
ONE OTHER THING, right before this happened, a buddy that was folllowing behind me said my back up lights would come on when i shifted gears. wtf?