AFRs offer more room to play with later (if you wanted to stroke it sometime, or add Forced Induction for example). The 165s flow very well for the 302 and will bolt up without having to touch the bottom end (see piston notching).
Best bang for the buck would probably be the trickflows...if I recall they are the least expensive of the aluminum heads. If I was going aluminum I'd go straight to an AFR/Canfield head...
however, and this is something to consider
an aggressively worked GT40/GT40P head with a ported GT40 intake/edelbrock perfomer and the 'right' cam will make around 300rwhp
and if you can get the head work done at a good rate, you will come out cheaper than an aluminum combo