well, I bought gas last night, and figured out my mileage... I'm getting just over 14 MPG!!! I commute about 10 miles a day... more than half is freeway... I just changed my fuel filter, cap/rotor, and did general tune up stuff... I could probably stand to change my oil again... been just about 2200 miles... I shift when my manual tells me to... at 12mph, 24, 35, 45 (works out to about 1950RPM) but I've tried shifting at 2200, and 2500 as well on previous tanks...
-should I cave and buy one of those "add 15% HP and increase gas mileage little gimmicks?
-should I cave and buy one of those "add 15% HP and increase gas mileage little gimmicks?

I wouldn't worry too much until you test your mileage on a long trip. I wouldn't follow the manual's shifting recommendations. I usually shift around 3K until around 4th, but I'm not flooring it to get there, just driving casually. Just shift smooth and use a good bit of that rpm range....gotta let the engine's legs stretch.