I think i am going to ask her out again tomorrow, hopefully she doesn’t already have plans, I will let her pick the place. If the weather holds up i will get out little red.
CarFreakGT said:BDT--Pretty sound advice so far on this thread. Another thing to keep in mind: As things progress, don't feel compelled to give details about "how far you go" w/ her. Don't get me wrong, it doesn't bother me at all. But, keep in mind that you never know what eyes might be checking out this thread.
You sound serious about this girl and seeing where things may go. You're both into Mustangs, so it's not beyond the realm of possibility that she may sometime stumble onto this site. That's if she hasn't/doesn't already. It probably wouldn't do much to help your cause if she sees a post telling how you PIITB, or something else of that nature. Be a gentleman, and not only when you're in her presence. "Discretion is the better part of valor."
68keyblr said:You seem like the gentleman she deserves
BDT 1967 said:I don’t know about that, I still think that she is way out of my league. I still get nervous every time I go to pick her up to go on a date. She is just too perfect.
BDT 1967 said:Solid advice,
Thanks,
As far as the reaction that she would give if it went to far to quick, I think would be a negative one. From what i have learned about her in these past 2 or 3 weeks points to a girl that is not looking for a play toy, but a future. This could be one of the reasons that she is still single, most guys our age are only looking for the best interest of the "D". She probably picked up on this on our first date, and that is probably why we are still goin out. We will see what happens .
I am actually looking for a long term relationship, the way i see it i have 1 more year of college, i have always planed on getting married less than a year after getting out. So that doesn’t leave me very much longer to find the girl that i have been looking for my entire life. To be honest with you i have had more fun with this girl than any other girl in my entire life, and we haven’t even gone past second base. I can only imagine what anything after that would be like. I know that goin all the way only confuses things if it is too early, so i am not going to press the issue at all. If this girl is actually the girl of my dreams than i don’t want to make any hasty decisions that will screw up what momentum i have. (or what ever it is i have going for me) I just don’t want to mess this up, I don’t know what I would do if I screwed up a chance of spending a lifetime with the finest girl at friends university.
BDT 1967 said:Solid advice,
Thanks,
As far as the reaction that she would give if it went to far to quick, I think would be a negative one. From what i have learned about her in these past 2 or 3 weeks points to a girl that is not looking for a play toy, but a future. This could be one of the reasons that she is still single, most guys our age are only looking for the best interest of the "D". She probably picked up on this on our first date, and that is probably why we are still goin out. We will see what happens .
I am actually looking for a long term relationship, the way i see it i have 1 more year of college, i have always planed on getting married less than a year after getting out. So that doesn’t leave me very much longer to find the girl that i have been looking for my entire life. To be honest with you i have had more fun with this girl than any other girl in my entire life, and we haven’t even gone past second base. I can only imagine what anything after that would be like. I know that goin all the way only confuses things if it is too early, so i am not going to press the issue at all. If this girl is actually the girl of my dreams than i don’t want to make any hasty decisions that will screw up what momentum i have. (or what ever it is i have going for me) I just don’t want to mess this up, I don’t know what I would do if I screwed up a chance of spending a lifetime with the finest girl at friends university.
1320stang said:(Now if we just knew what board she was posting to about BDT..... )
BDT 1967 said:If you find her let me know
65mistress said:Um, just a word of advice, when you refer to anything you have, never preface it with lil or Little or anything referring to a small stature.. thank you, that is all.
CarFreakGT said:Yeah, it doesn't even work when you're trying to downplay or trivialize something...
"Umm, yeah, honey, I don't know what that is. But, don't worry. It's little."
"Check out this little boil I have on my (insert body part of your choice)."
"Sure, it might hurt just a little. But, if you love me, you'll do it." (By the way, that line never works!!!)
CarFreakGT said:"Sure, it might hurt just a little. But, if you love me, you'll do it." (By the way, that line never works!!!)
Ain't been married twenty five years either................StangDreamin' said:What??????? You never had a girl talk you into loading a 150+ pound antique desk into the back of a pickup - by yourself???
Chase down (on foot) the horse she accidentally let loose?
Go rescue her Rottweiler from a pack of possibly-rabid coyotes out by the horse pens?
Sell the horses 'cause a baby was coming? Use your pickup for down-payment on her Pontiac; then continue to work on that POS Pontiac for 7-1/2 long years and multiple wounds/broken knuckles?
"I know it's not fun, but we (she said "We" but she actually meant ME) really need to do it. Please?"