Never Mind but Thanks Anyway
I've got them hooked up, but not the way we wanted. I Powered the lights from the power distributon block in the engine bay with a 20 amp inline fuse and relay. I grouded the lights to the body with the same factory grounds to the left of the radiator. The relay is switched and powered by the red wire with the white stripe, behind the light controls on the dash. All works as it should.
I was trying to get the lights to be switch controled by the power source to the side marker lights. However when I tapped the white wire with the red stripe, the result was that the fog lights would be on when the marker lights were off and the fog lights would be off when the marker lights were on. But all this is rrelevant now since I have them installed with a switch inside the car right next to my light dimmer control switch.