the rotunda harness plugs into the factory harness, you then cut off the end that would plug into the ECU and wire that to the ms3 harness or solder it to the ms3 connector. Your choice. Wiring is easier if you cant solder, and no worries about a questionable solder joint.
Ah I see now. I just pulled the contents of my kit out and looked them over and see the connector. I can solder, so looks like i'm good to go unless I just want to extend the distance. I'll cross that bridge when I come to it.