hello, The Shape. well you know im not much of an AOD guy, but i will share what i have observed. i just did some work on a chevy S-10 (4.3L, auto). it was pinging, so i made the timing like me: retarded a little. then it was good to go.
best check i have found: go find a decent hill. give it throttle as you go up. if it wont shift due to the hill, floor it and then let off the gas a lot - it will shift. then give it moderate gas (not enough to shift). it should be lugging since you are on a grade. should ping like crazy.
other things i think i know: pinging is like no real mechanical malady (header tick, valve tick, etc). it is random sharp rocks-in-a-glass like noises. other stuff is more methodical and muted. as OLT and ECU stated correctly, header leaks and valve train tick are very and often most easily noticable at idle. not so for you.
another thing: as i recall, most cars run lean at part throttle. so it makes sense that this is when you see the problem. now we have to accomodate that (much easier on EFI than carbs).
i might try backing timing off a couple of degrees and see if it goes away. you can have an increased compression ratio from things like carbon build up in the chambers or bad plug heat range (i know the latter is not true for you, just stating it). higher compression is more likely to cause detonation.
but if you back timing off and problem is gone, then you know.
i know you get hot down there - is it hot yet? i keep timing at 14* till we hit about 95* ambient temps. then i back off to 12*. all cars like different timing but the idea is the same. i know you know that, but it segues into another observation. i had detonation last summer. 92 octane did nothing, as you have experienced. and with gas prices as they are, we cant afford it (over 2 bucks a gallon here). but back timing off two degrees and good to go.
did you go to thicker oil on the last change? i know you were kickin the idea around. if you did, i would not be worried about valve train noises. if not, how is your pressure?
well, i think i have filled my space allowance. hope some of this made sense.
