Suspension + Brakes = road noise?

After digging through the forums I found the hub nut torque spec of 258 ft/lbs but I was just reading through the instructions to the FRPP M-2300-K kit and the spec for the front hub nut is 190 - 250 ft/lbs. My first impulse is to follow the recommendations on the M-2300-K instructions but you guys seem set with 258 ft/lbs.

So, which is it?
 
So who do I have to know to buy the Hub Retaining Nuts? NO local place has them...at all. I tried VIP, Autozone, Advance, West Springfield Auto...nothing, nothing, nothing and nothing. My second choice NAPA had them in the local warehouse but when they showed up the next day they were the 87-93 brake hub nut in the 94-2000 hub nut package. My order from Rockauto had the same issue; correct package, wrong part. Ford wants $19 each (compared to $7.50 everywhere else) and they aren't in stock and have to be ordered from Michigan. This is the LAST part of this puzzle and right now my car is on jack stands waiting for the straw that broke the camel's back.

Talk about frustrating!!