Thankfully, the fluid doesn't come out THAT fast, but it does drip...
Since the seal is larger than most people have sockets for, you can also use a small piece of wood, or hard plastic that covers the entire seal.. Just beat on in med. hits, evenly around...
I had thought of this though when I was reading this, your car seems fairly new (if I read 2003 correctly), I wonder why it's leaking so soon...
My last tranny hadn't blow a seal period for nearly 150,000 miles of continuous beating.. Maybe it just went bad?? Do you have any driveline vibrations when you're driving??
JT