the right pushrod is the correct length pushrod!
get a checker and adjust it to zero lash.
since your using stock heads, its a little trickier to adjust the rocker for the best pattern since your utilizing pedestal style rockers. you either shim the rocker to move the roller towards the exhaust side or mill the pedestals down to bring the roller tip towards the intake side. generally you want to roller just a TAD off center towards the intake side. the roller tip moves in an arc in relation to the centerline of the trunion, once the rocker pushes down the roller will move towards the center of the valve tip. the idea is to keep the roller as centered as possible. too much to either side promotes early valve guide wear as there is side load on the guides.
once you have that set, all you need is to get the right length pushrod that will put proper preload on the hyd lifter.
now take your checker and adjust it to zero lash, where all slack is take up, take your measurement and then add .030" this is a good preload number. then order your pushrods and bolt them down, its best to bolt each one down with that particular lifter on the base circle of the cam. it should bolt down and push the plunger in the lifter .030" (what we added)
with stock heads and headgaskets etc ( stock dimension parts) the pushrod will be around 6.250" like stated above. but there are alot of things that affect it, valve height, HG thickness, camshaft. once you start changing parts its reccomended to check and verify proper valvetrain adjustment.. dont fall into the myth that pedestal rockers arent adjustable and you just bolt them down. i used to believe thats and its all hogwash.
the whole adjustment process is made 10x easier with an adjustable stud rocker setup, you just need the adj pushrod to find the pushrod length you need, all of the adjustment is done with the pushrod length in a stud setup. with a pedestal setup the rocker is bolted down so you have to shim or mill the pedestals to get the rocker in the ideal spot where the roller is centered over the valve. on the stud setup the rocker simply held up by the valve spring and pushrod and pivots on the underside of the polylock
also i would investigate as to WHY all your pushrods managed to bend. something causes them to bend they dont just bend for no reason.