Right. Just mentioning I didn't have any spark issues at 5-7 psi with a .054 gap. Not saying it isn't your issue, but I had none at that range.
Yeah, you could rent one. Just a standard fuel pressure guage (tool). Then if you have a hand pump vacuum / pressure tool
https://www.harborfreight you can at least verify your FMU is working correctly. They come in handy for lots of things like bleeding brakes.
-install FP guage to fuel rail Schrader valve
-remove vacuum line from FMU and plug hose
-set hand pump to pressure and connect to FMU nipple
-start car and make sure no fuel leaks
-hold RPMs up a little so it wont bog down when you bump up the FP with the FMU
-observe FP guage with car running
-pump 5 psi into FMU with hand pump (this simulates boost pressure)
-note FP increase as you apply pressure. It should go up from base FP to 60 or more. At 10 psi it will be around 100 psi with the disc your running for 19lb injectors.
-release pressue from pump as soon as you see it operating correctly or you'll flood the engine.
Just something pretty easy to test. If it passes that test I'd take it for a ride and see what the guage does when you experience the issue. If it looks good move onto spark.
Its just all about eliminating things one by one. Eventually you'll find it. I'm just mentioning to check the FMU becasue if it isn't working it could mean bad things happening by running lean. Probably worth a look see. Your issue is either spark or fuel, so rule out the most detrimental possibility first IMO.
You'll get it. One thing at a time.