It's all about momentum and the rotating parts and what the band has to do to stop the momentum of the parts, and get other parts moving fast - that's it very basically. And there is nothing you can do to strengthen the OD band and the way it works. Even a built tranny has this problem. When I do tunes, I always setup the tranny like Wes said - set the 3-4 MPH shift point at high TP to 127 and set the WOT RPM shift point 3-4 shift RPM to 7000. But you still need to lock out OD at the track to be sure.
Some tranny builders may say you can go to a kevlar band, and while it's true the kevlar will keep the band from burning up, what will then happen is the kelvar will slip, which creates heat which hurts tranny life, plus you still have the problem of the momentum of all those rotating parts.
I have my Gen 1 Lightning set up on a OD switch that defaults to OFF, just the opposite of the way Ford does it, that way around town and at the track, OD is off. On the highway, I can enable it - and my tranny, the E4OD isn't as susceptible to that problem as an AODE/4R70W.
Don