Do you have any idea how sexists that sounds. I am sorry, but whenever the Mafia was created no one said "this is MEN only." You had your voice and your say in the membership, but the majority ruled on that one. I for one want my wife/girlfriend/significant other involved in things that I do because it makes it easier to attend meets, functions, or to even get my car modded. If YOU don't want them involved, speak up, but don't get all hissy whenever the majority doesn't agree with you.