i would really check out the wiring on all of the fusable links, as mentioned.
for the key situation, it could be another problem. im not familiar with 4 eyed stuff, so i will say what i know for 87 on up stuff, and let you decide if it applies (it should).
if you have absolutely no turning over, etc when in crank mode:
pull the top wire off the solenoid (it slides on to a stud). put a test light on it, and ground the other test light lead. the car wont start now with a key (even if it was workin before). turn the key to crank and see if the light lights up. if not, then check whatever safety switch you have (clutch safety switch on back of clutch pedal for sticks; neutral safety switch for auto). try again. if still no, check the ignition switch for continuity at start position. if still not, then it is the wiring. rewire it. simple to do.
if the push on wire (used above for testing) has 12 volts at crank, touch the push on wire to the battery lug of the solenoid (with all the wires on it). and if it starts, the solenoid is good. if this does not work (and you had 12 volts at the test earlier), but jumping the lugs of the solenoid (battery lug to starter lug) works, then that suggests the solenoid is bad.
hope this makes sense. good luck.