Your symptoms sound like flooding. Starts great cold, won't start hot by cranking but it will start hot with a push-start, Wet plugs, spraying starting fluid doesn't help.
If you floor the gas pedal while cranking, the computer (I didn't read the whole thread line by line, just did some glancing and I'm assuming you have an EEC-IV computer) will turn off the fuel injectors.
This will allow the cylinders to dry out while cranking because no new fuel will be added. It will need to crank for several seconds while clearing the cylinders. After several seconds the fuel level in the cylinder should drop enough to reach a combustable ratio, and it'll catch, at that moment take your foot off the gas pedal and it'll run.
I'm pretty sure this is in JR's crank but no run checklist, did you try it yet?