That's a pretty good basic list you've got, but I can only offer a few comments...
Replace Shocks: KYB GR-2 or Edelbrock - good choices, but the important part is to balance shocks with spring rates. Typically, the two most common philosophies are stiff spring/soft shock or soft spring/stiff shock. This is why adjustable shocks are so cool.
New Coils: 620 or 720 - careful going too firm with spring rates, especially if you plan to drive it on the street. Again, balance the spring choice with the shock choice.
New Leafs: 4.5 or 5 - more leafs usually means a stiffer spring rate, so again, match your shock and spring choices.
Install sub frame connectors - personally, the best chassis mod I have ever done. Do it!!!
Box in control arms - if you're doing it yourself and plan to drive the car hard, it's an excellent cheap mod.
Install Monte Carlo bar - yes, absolutely anything to help triangulate the shocktowers will add integrity and strength.
Replace strut rods - if you're gonna spend the coin to replace 'em, seriously consider aftermarket tubular designs. They're pricier, but also more durable.
get Bump steer corrector kit - only if you need it, which usually depends on how much you lower the car.
Shelby quick steer kit - I've heard they're very effective, but won't work if you've got power steering.
Get Adjustable Eccentric Eliminator Kit - cheap enough and it will definitely help maintain alignment settings.
It looks like you've done your homework already, but if you're looking for some more thoughts (mine specifically), you might check the link in my sig. Whatever you decide, definitely post your impressions when you finish up stuff. The reality and what theoretically works often aren't the same, so real world feedback is valuable info for others.
Hope this helps...
