All I do is dip the pushrods in oil then slide them in. The rockers just tighten enough to get them tight by hand. Then you need to start turning the crank to bring the #1 piston to TDC. When it is torque the both #1 rocker bolts to 18 lbs. Then follow the firing order and bring the next to TDC and so on. Every 1/4 turn of the crank will bring the next piston to TDC, so if you are using a breaker bar and you start @ the 1 o'clock position and go to 3 o'clock it will bring the next piston to TDC all the way throught the firing order.
(The pushrods should be installed in the same place as they were removed.)
I also drizzle oil on the rocker arms and pushrods after they are all torqued down.
FYI:Next time leave off one of the PS bracket bolts (the one you cant get unless you take off the ps pulley) b/c if you have to rip it apart again soon it sucks to take off the pulley. It seems to be the hardest part of the job to me. It will be fine and you can put it back in later if you want but I don't use mine and it's been fine.