I agree with BigJay and Yellow.
If you want to compare what a blown HG looks like let me try and find my old pics from last year when I went through 2 sets before getting to the dyno.

Your hgs look good to me as well as your 11yr old stock pistons.

Pull the other head and get the ARPS and all the other essentials to do the job right and put it all back together. Worse case scenario is it has another problem again and you at least know you did the job correct you can then narrow it down to the cause. I think your car is fine if you just do that. I shaved the heads on the first time install and then after the last 2 I was so pissed to have to do it all over again I just threw them back on and I haven't had a problem since last summer with the hgs. That was with 12#'s of boost on the S-Trim with n2o and methanol. 10#'s with the KB with methanol and now 9#'s with this t-66.
And remember I'm totally internally stock still. I had some blow by but used breathers and capped the barb on the vc (I used to find my dipstick 1/2 out and smoking) and make sure your torque sequence is correct and I torque the intake in 5-8# increments until I get to 25-28#'s going through the sequence several times. They tend to loosen after a while so re-torque them (gently).