i just started digging into my home ported heads project here are some links to get you started:
www.workmonster.com
http://hometown.aol.com/valakoraceheads/indexhtmlvalakoraceheads.html
www.diyporting.com
http://www.chevyhiperformance.com/techarticles/95518/
www.fordmuscle.com has a good forum under home porting that is super helpful
as well as tmoss's site on porting the lower is invaluable!!
they also have a real good article that is worth the 8$ to read
you can find the standard abrasives step by step guide online also if you look
there are guys putting down some good HP numbers on home ported stock heads, i dont know anything besides whats above but just look at it like its fun and as long as you dont do anything studid it seems pretty hard to screw up the ford E7TE heads,
also i bellieve mustang and fast fords had a "redneck rebuild" section a few issues ago that was sort of helpful.. maybe look it up.
good luck, and be sure to let us know how the project goes, i'm looking on doing a ghetto rebuild in the future at some time and its nice to watch someone else do it
BTW: i got all my tools and parts for dirt cheap on ebay and at harbor freight total bill is less than 100$ for grinder,speed controller and 3 carbide bits!