Why don't you run your own positive wire from the battery to the fuel pump? I don't get why you are getting mad/upset. The new wire will bypass anything to do with the stock wiring, and will not blow fuses. Just make sure you install an inline 20A fuse and a switch to turn it on/off.
Run the wire. Drive your car. When you get home, try to figure it out. Don't panic.
If you don't want to fix it yourself, the PCM and the CCRM and any wiring could be bad. Any of those could be the problem.
Scott