Anywho...about the rpm, don't worry about gas milage, it's really not that big of a difference: at max, 2mpg.
Here's how you should determine what gears to get: If you plan on getting a power adder, then go with 3.73s. If you plan on staying N/A, get 4.10s. 4.10s are just too steep for most power adders IN MY OPINION.