so my gf for about 11 months and i are are going over a bumpy road right now. its just now gotten me worried enough to ask for advice. we see each other allot, and i sometimes think of what it would be like to be single. but overall i love her to death./ and i dont want that to change at all.
so my biggest issue with her is that she never seems to put up a fight to make things better. for instance we argue, and she just gets mad at me, and i have to apologize to get anywhere, then once we are happier with each other she will apologize. one time i did leave her house in an argument and she actually got in her car and came after me, but thats the only time i can think of. usually its me trying to keep her attention and keeping her from leaving me....
i just got back from out of town and earlier today we were arguing a little and i told her how important to me it is that she try to make things better sometimes.
so tonight me and her sister and her cousin and her b.f. are sitting around playing ddr in the garage. im up there looking like a dumbass, and when i look over at my g.f. and her sis after im done there giggling at me. (ive been made fun of allot of my life and hate it with a passion) so i go sit back in the end of the room. i wanted her to come to me and ask if everything was ok. after 20 minutes of her sitting on the couch and playing ddr she comes over and is all like whats wrong with you. so i try to explain whats wrong and she just gets mad at me. i end up driving her and her sis home, which is what i was supposed to do, and she sits in the car with me and talks for a little, trys to get out, i stop her we talk sommore , yadda yadda, i try tellign her how important it is for her to try to fix things sometimes, and eventualy she gets so mad she gets out, slams the doornotnice and goes inside.
she wont answer my calls, and she just texts me how our relationship isnt worth it. which happens allot, we always get over it.
so i cant help but wonder, how does this stack up with most other relationships. i really think we have something going for us, we seem to have good chemistry and we love each other to death, i just dont know if i can take me feeling like a girl all the time and apologizing first. when we watched the movie click i showed her how the girl actually apologized to adam sandler, the guy in the marrage, and how she would always try to make things better.
is this the way all relationships are? if it is, ill just go on ahead and get over it and keep going the way i am. i just want to make sure that im not forgetting anything obvious that could help me out.
fire away with advice guys, my waterheater in the house is broken, the place smells like wood stain, i have to work the next 4 days, and my g.f is very mad at me.
sorry i sound so emo. if i ever needed stangnets help, not critisizm, this is the time.
so my biggest issue with her is that she never seems to put up a fight to make things better. for instance we argue, and she just gets mad at me, and i have to apologize to get anywhere, then once we are happier with each other she will apologize. one time i did leave her house in an argument and she actually got in her car and came after me, but thats the only time i can think of. usually its me trying to keep her attention and keeping her from leaving me....
i just got back from out of town and earlier today we were arguing a little and i told her how important to me it is that she try to make things better sometimes.
so tonight me and her sister and her cousin and her b.f. are sitting around playing ddr in the garage. im up there looking like a dumbass, and when i look over at my g.f. and her sis after im done there giggling at me. (ive been made fun of allot of my life and hate it with a passion) so i go sit back in the end of the room. i wanted her to come to me and ask if everything was ok. after 20 minutes of her sitting on the couch and playing ddr she comes over and is all like whats wrong with you. so i try to explain whats wrong and she just gets mad at me. i end up driving her and her sis home, which is what i was supposed to do, and she sits in the car with me and talks for a little, trys to get out, i stop her we talk sommore , yadda yadda, i try tellign her how important it is for her to try to fix things sometimes, and eventualy she gets so mad she gets out, slams the doornotnice and goes inside.
she wont answer my calls, and she just texts me how our relationship isnt worth it. which happens allot, we always get over it.
so i cant help but wonder, how does this stack up with most other relationships. i really think we have something going for us, we seem to have good chemistry and we love each other to death, i just dont know if i can take me feeling like a girl all the time and apologizing first. when we watched the movie click i showed her how the girl actually apologized to adam sandler, the guy in the marrage, and how she would always try to make things better.
is this the way all relationships are? if it is, ill just go on ahead and get over it and keep going the way i am. i just want to make sure that im not forgetting anything obvious that could help me out.
fire away with advice guys, my waterheater in the house is broken, the place smells like wood stain, i have to work the next 4 days, and my g.f is very mad at me.
sorry i sound so emo. if i ever needed stangnets help, not critisizm, this is the time.