head gasket leak

Guys...how do i check if my head gaskets are blown...my temp gauge is going hot than cold and ....than when i top off the radiator...the temp stays ok...keep in mind my overflow is a pop bottle right now...with not top.....and my water pump seems to be leaking a little bit of coolant..but guys at alternative said from what i said its a blown head gasket.....i really hope not...
 
Do a compression test...

With the engine warmed up, remove all spark plugs and prop the throttle wide open, crank the engine until it the gage reading stops increasing. On a cold engine, it will be hard to tell what's good & what's not. Some of the recent posts have numbers ranging from 140-170 psi. If the compression is low, squirt some oil in the cylinder and do it again – if it comes up, the rings are worn. There should be no more than 10% difference between cylinders. Use a blow down leak test (puts compressed air inside cylinders) on cylinders that have more than 10% difference.

Be sure to use a compression tester with a screw in type adapter. The other kind of test adapters are unreliable.
 
In addition to the above tests, pressurizing the cooling system may give you some indication where the leak is occurring - sounds like you have multiple problems. Any coolant in the oil? Any vapor out the tailpipes that smells like antifreeze (sweet smell) when the car's running?