Need timing cover gasket help

Alright i've cleaned the block and timing cover off completely not a speck of dirt or anything on either took me a whole day, but have a couple of questions before putting on the new gasket. First is since the oil pan gasket (all rubber) stayed in place should I reuse that or use the one that came in the felpro kit which is two cork pieces and a rubber one for the dip under the crankshaft? If reuseable, i've tried just putting the cover up there to see what happens and every time I do the oil pan gasket moves all over the place, can it be RTV'd to the pan to keep it from moving? Last, when I put the gasket on the cover I was going to RTV it to the cover and wait till it's almost dry and then attach to the block is this the correct approach? I just really want to make sure it's right b/c I have no intention of doing this again.

Thanks for the help, I finally got it on today. I RTV'd the oil pan gaskets on and waited a while before I took some test runs to see how i'd get it on before I actually siliconed the gasket into place. I never could get it into place correctly though until I finally loosened all the oil pan bolts so that it would drop down a quarter of an inch or so and only then could I get the timing cover back on without a problem. I should have just done that in the first place it would have saved me a lot of time.