660mom,
I am pretty sure that the dealership could do something about it. Is there another dealer in your area? A call to the (new dealer's) Service Dept. will tell you pretty quickly if the rear gears can be addressed in a vehicle reflash. Seems to me that all they need to do is look up the calibration and find a similar PCM calibration that has 3.73:1 gears. My 2012 came with 3.73's so Ford certainly had a calibration for it and that was two years before your car was born, lol.
Another option is to get a tune (by a reputable tuner). The downside is cost: $400 for the handheld device and $150 to $200 for the tune. But you won't be putting ghost miles on the car.
The last thing that I can thing of is to find an "HP Tuner" dealer who might be able to do a simple 'gear tune' without having to marry a handheld device to your car.
Please post an update when available.
HTH,
Chris