This is inaccurate information. Your driveshaft speed is directly related to the speed at which the tires are traveling - it can be no other way since they are mechanically connected. Lets say you are cruising down the highway in your 3.27 equipped stang at 75 MPH, your tach reads 2500 RPM, if you change up to a 4.10 your RPM at the same 75 MPH would be over 3100. Because your engine rpm translates directly to driveline rpm, your driveshaft is spinning faster with your 4.10's than with a 3.27.
I have personnally installed several hundred ring and pinions, and in any vehicle you will most certainly experience a driveline harmonic vibration when you change gear ratio if your driveline has not been properly prepared. Since Ford chose heavy steel large diameter driveshafts for our cars the vibration is quite pronounced when you change ratio. The answer is to reduce that rotating mass with a lighter shaft, without sacrificing strength, and it must have a good balance, .0010 out of balance is a nightmare to drive at freeway speeds with.
And why would you use a used ring and pinion, they're not that expensive new. You can get a good set of Motive's are like $150.
Ford racing part number M-4602-J will solve your problem it should cost around $250.00. Mine doesnt vibrate thru 130+ and you'll appreciate how much faster you can get there with those 4.10's.