Ray - you keep saying you're doing it like we say, but you're describing it like this "I turned em down till I got snug then I turned the motor till both rockers were sitting level & torqued" -- that is NOT the procedure that 89sleeper and I are describing.
Once again - rotate the engine until both lifters for a given cylinder are on the base circle of the cam -- that is, until both pushrods are level, and the lifters are on the base circle. If you're not sure how to achieve that, you should snag a friend that knows what they're doing to assist you so you know if you're judging that correctly. Once you've got both lifters on the base circle (in other words, both valves would be closed), put both rockers on and hand tighten the bolts until you achieve zero lash. Zero lash is reached this way - with your left hand, rock the rocker between the valve stem and the pushrod; with your right hand begin to tighten the bolt; as you tighten, the gaps between rocker and valve/pushrod will grow progressively smaller; keep tightening until the gap has just barely gone away - there's no gap on the valve stem side or the pushrod side. That's the 'zero lash' point. Once you're there, THEN put your torque wrench on it and turn to 18-20 ft-lbs while counting turns. The torque should hit between 1/4 turns and 1 turn. If it takes more than one turn, shim it so that the torque occurs at less than one turn. If it takes less than 1/4 turn, shave the fulcrum or get a longer pushrod. Once you've done that, crank it up and let it warm completely up. If one or more are still noisy, take it back apart while hot, and go through the exact same procedure again with everything warm. I don't know how to describe it any better than that.