Well, I have not been on here a lot lately, and I don't know how much I will be on for a while. Unfortunatly, the mustangs and the hobby will have to take a back seat to a little bit of life restoration.
A few weeks ago, my wife of 15+ years informed me that she was not sure she still wanted to be married. Then a week or so later, informed me she had become "emotionally" involved with someone else, a mutual friend (who is also married) no less. She says she wants to move out. she is not say divorce for sure yet, but if I wouldn't want her back after all this she would understand. She also keeps saying that she wants us to remain friends and be good "Co-Parents" for our 4 kids. She has said she also wants me to keep the house. At this point she is not talking about pushing for spousal or child support as long as we can play nice through all this. She is trying to find a place to rent in the same school district then the kids could be at the house like everyday after school until she would get home from work and I would have them every other weekend.
Divorce laws really suck in PA. Even though I didn't do anything other than giver her and the kids everything, be supportive in everything she ever wanted to do, be a good husband and father, I stand to lose everything if I don't play nice and she gets mad. In her own words I didn't do anything wrong to deserve this, so why is she doing it then.
Oh yeah and I am going to have to trade my 02 GT for something tthat seats at least 5 people. Probably going to be some little rice burner to save money on gas and payment. I really like that car.
So anyway, I will probably be checking in from time to time, but doubt I will be very active here for a while.
A few weeks ago, my wife of 15+ years informed me that she was not sure she still wanted to be married. Then a week or so later, informed me she had become "emotionally" involved with someone else, a mutual friend (who is also married) no less. She says she wants to move out. she is not say divorce for sure yet, but if I wouldn't want her back after all this she would understand. She also keeps saying that she wants us to remain friends and be good "Co-Parents" for our 4 kids. She has said she also wants me to keep the house. At this point she is not talking about pushing for spousal or child support as long as we can play nice through all this. She is trying to find a place to rent in the same school district then the kids could be at the house like everyday after school until she would get home from work and I would have them every other weekend.
Divorce laws really suck in PA. Even though I didn't do anything other than giver her and the kids everything, be supportive in everything she ever wanted to do, be a good husband and father, I stand to lose everything if I don't play nice and she gets mad. In her own words I didn't do anything wrong to deserve this, so why is she doing it then.
Oh yeah and I am going to have to trade my 02 GT for something tthat seats at least 5 people. Probably going to be some little rice burner to save money on gas and payment. I really like that car.
So anyway, I will probably be checking in from time to time, but doubt I will be very active here for a while.